I'm going to lose my mind

Biggest issue i have is my connection. I genuinely dont understand how i can play games like gta v and roblox with 20+ people/ server, and a 1000x more background processes with absolutely zero stuttering, rollbacks, or pausing lag, but brawlhalla acts like im running Red dead redemption on a school issued chromebook while connected to a phones hotspot. I went from 1915 peak elo down to about 1750 elo because trying to play this game is like watching a movie using only the fast forward and rewind button

I timed my last 10 ranked matches (mid-high plat) and ALL of them were at LEAST 4 mins and 30 seconds. When i used to play the game more like 2 years ago the longest match I'd encounter would be like 3 mins long. People are just so ridiculously passive now its bizzare. I find myself having to literally run to the other side of the stage just to coax them off a wall like a house cat.

I'll be playing more in an hour though i hate myself.