What is YOUR most destructive symptom of bipolar 1 or 2?

Mine is the irritation. It affects my relationships

Also another question: do you think being stable for long periods of time makes it harder to know that you’re in an episode when you are? For example: when I first got prescribed seroquel at a very low dosage I was stable for 1 almost 2 years than started having episodes again and didn’t realize I was until I was out of my episode. Where as when I’m experiencing episodes back to back and have a stable break for maybe 1-2 weeks or a month and then have an episode I can easily pick up that I’m having an episode. Hopefully I make sense with this question