Good London surgeons?

30/f with BRCA1 and planning on a double mastectomy with implant reconstruction.

I’ve met three London-based surgeons now…

The first made me feel uncomfortable and had a terrible bedside manner.

The second was nice and I felt listened to but… he was a bit too technical and stared at my chest a lot as we spoke. His eyes kept darting to it (while fully clothed), which put me off.

The third surgeon was great and really caring (she does the mastectomy side of things) but the plastic surgeon she works with rushed our meeting and presented me with his ‘vision’ (expanders) but didn’t explain why or ask me about my own wishes. When I explained I didn’t want expanders because I already have too much skin and require a breast reduction (and my mum has them and finds them uncomfortable) he basically shut me down and said they’re better and more expensive than regular implants. My mum went with this surgical pair and said they’re great but I’m really not sure.

Does anyone have London-based mastectomy and reconstruction surgeons they’d recommend? What was your experience when it came to meeting and choosing a surgeon? Feel free to message me privately. Basically, I want a surgeon who cares about my wishes for the final aesthetic as it’s me who has to live with it.

Thanks x