I lack sympathy for most borderlines

I used to feel bad for those suffering from the condition. After years of mindfuckery from my BPD ex, I have no sympathy for untreated BPDs.

I think untreated BPDs are aware of their behavior and just don’t see any benefit in fixing themselves. They are inherently self-centered… so self-improvement for the sake of their loved ones is … irrelevant to them.

I do have sympathy for BPDs that are in therapy and are genuinely trying to be better people for those around them. But those seem to be few and far in between due to the nature of the disorder.