How do you date a woman with kids?

I’m 35, I’ll be 36 in 2 months. I prefer to date women between 25-30 with no kids, but as I get older, I realize it’s a little less realistic to expect a woman to not have kids. I feel like single moms often prioritize working and child-rearing (and rightfully so), which makes dating an afterthought. They also may not have great relationships with their children’s fathers. Can anyone give advice on how to date women with kids? Best practices? Do you have to pay for a babysitter in order to take them on dates? 😰😂🧏🏾‍♂️