Dating in your late 30s, what are red flags to look for in dating profiles?

I’m unfortunately back in the dating pool in my late 30s. What are some red flags to look out for in dating profiles? For me, if I see the words “provider” or “princess” or “spoil me” it just gives me the ick. I make decent money and can afford to pay for everything on dates if I wanted to (I always pay for the first date even if they offer to split). But if they never offer to pay for anything after a few dates I just feel used.

Like sure, if we’re married and have a family together let me be the provider but we’re not there, we’re not even in an exclusive relationship, I’m still trying to get to know them.