Why are Indian Parents like this? They love me too much, they raised me exactly like my brother, my dad is more attached to me but all property/ inheritance goes to my brother n bhabhi! How do you women handle this ?

Hi guys. Im 28F. My parents love me, I know it. My dad adores me, my brother and I were given the same education! We are both doctors but ever since my brother got married I can see my parents talk about giving him all the property lol

Like they exhausted all their savings to buy a swanky house in my bhaiya and bhabis name. They have two other houses which they have already planned to give to my bhai bhabhis (yet to born) children. And here I am, just feeling heartbroken.

I am not coming from a place of greed. But just knowing that my parents are also lowkey sexist is hurting me constantly. But they love me, I know. So why this divide? How do I cope ?

This divide is also somewhat making me resent my brother which isnt fair I know but I am constantly heartbroken. I don’t care for the money, its not even a lot tbh. But its just that accepting that my parents are also like that is shocking because I did not see it coming!

I did share what I felt with my parents a few months ago, they heard me and said we will help you whenever you need us but thats not what I wanted to hear. I hate feeling like this. I love them. But I hate being in this position.