Just found out…

My husband and I have been together over a decade, married for 3 years now. He just told me this evening he'd had sex with two women prior to us getting married (once after being engaged).

I got a weird message from one of his friend's ex girlfriends telling me about all of this and he read it and said she was crazy, only to confess 2 nights later... because she threatened him.

I don't even know what to think right now. We had our first child in 2023. I feel like our entire relationship is a lie.

I love him...but I feel so betrayed. I'm so embarrassed and humiliated. His friends knew, his parents knew.

Everyone but me. Every single person in my life lied to me:( What the heck do I do