I am frustrated

So I just got this game 2 days ago and I am in love. This is the best Milsim I’ve ever played other than Arma 3. My one major issue is how much it crashes especially when you’re trying to join a server. Due to the games popularity it may take 30+ mins to get into a popular server which is another problem in itself but not really the games fault, but my problem is there have been multiple times when I hit the 15/20 mins wait mark to get into a server and my game just crashes. It makes me want to not even play it.