AIO: bf sent massages so his dad about me
Okay so basically my bf (21M) and I (18F) have been together for less than six months. I found out the he cheated on me like 3 or so months into our relationship and I talked to him about it and gave him a second chance and as far as I know he hasn’t since we were good for a while. Ever since Christmas we haven’t been on good terms we have had sex in like 2 months bc everything has just been bad. But I’ve hardly seen him since the new year and I’ve felt like things have been weird between us so I decided I would go through his phone and see if there’s anything explaining as to why. I have been trying so hard to salvage our relationship, and this is what I find. I mean I know it’s a little while ago but it still hurts. For reference I live with my dad (45) and his gf (44) they’re both alcoholics. my dad has always been drinking for as long as I can remember. But he was always a good father he always had a job with good enough money, health insurance, he was ALWAYS there for me in absence but never emotionally. But about 4 or 5 years ago my dad got into some trouble with the police and he served his time but he is considered a felon. So since he became a convicted felon it has been harder for him to find work (hence the broke comment) but I am enlisting into the army so I don’t have to go down the same path as either one of my parents. Sorry for the long story but I am so upset right now. I do plan on breaking up with him. But I just can’t help but feel like I’m overreacting.
Okay so basically my bf (21M) and I (18F) have been together for less than six months. I found out the he cheated on me like 3 or so months into our relationship and I talked to him about it and gave him a second chance and as far as I know he hasn’t since we were good for a while. Ever since Christmas we haven’t been on good terms we have had sex in like 2 months bc everything has just been bad. But I’ve hardly seen him since the new year and I’ve felt like things have been weird between us so I decided I would go through his phone and see if there’s anything explaining as to why. I have been trying so hard to salvage our relationship, and this is what I find. I mean I know it’s a little while ago but it still hurts. For reference I live with my dad (45) and his gf (44) they’re both alcoholics. my dad has always been drinking for as long as I can remember. But he was always a good father he always had a job with good enough money, health insurance, he was ALWAYS there for me in absence but never emotionally. But about 4 or 5 years ago my dad got into some trouble with the police and he served his time but he is considered a felon. So since he became a convicted felon it has been harder for him to find work (hence the broke comment) but I am enlisting into the army so I don’t have to go down the same path as either one of my parents. Sorry for the long story but I am so upset right now. I do plan on breaking up with him. But I just can’t help but feel like I’m overreacting.