AIO

So when I became pregnant my partner told me at 8 weeks pregnant that being pregnant isn’t attractive to a man and therefore I was not touched for the remainder of the pregnancy (the biggest I was while pregnant was 62kg ), when we found out we were having a girl he was upset because he wanted a boy he made the nurse re scan it was so awkward and then in the waiting room he tapped me on the knee and said he has to go, he then went to his parents house and had a sook about it , when I gave birth he rushed me out of the hospital a day early because he did not like being there and once we were home he was no help , after 3 months he asked me why I don’t look good anymore or why I don’t get up early anymore to go to the gym which is just outrageous. I bring this all up to him because I can’t seem to get over it and the loneliness I felt while uncomfortable in bed at the end of my pregnancy and have told him I don’t want to be in the relationship anymore and he tells me I’m over reacting and to stop being up the past because I’m so selfish for wanting breakup a family .