Time for some answers

We've all seen or heard the standard answers that these cold hearted, selfish OW trot out when they're accused of being homewreckers, such as...

"I owe her no loyalty, it wasn't me who made the vows"

"I can't help it if he's fallen for me, so if he wants me, he can have me"

"The heart wants what the heart wants"

"It's my life, you can't tell me how to live it"

"He's the homewrecker, not me. He's the one who opened the door and let me in"

"His wife doesn't understand him"

It's like they're robots, pre-programmed with arguments that conveniently absolve them of all responsibility for wilfully attempting to destroy other people's marriages in order to snatch the life that they want.

And, because they always have their snappy statements aready lined up, not many people give them the responses that will shoot them down in flames. In fact, many people will thoughtlessly agree with them and blame the MM solely while the OW gets to bask in her, "I'm just his helpless little mistress" glow.

Obviously they couldn't give a damn what anyone thinks of them, but isn't it time that society had some hard hitting standard responses? How can people easily expose these sort of trite justifications for OWs' shitty behaviour as the vile, self serving nonsense it truly is?