AITA for not wanting to have sex every night??

Update: I do not give in when I don’t feel like it. I let him have his pity party and go about my life. He wasn’t always like this. We were actually friends for years before we ended up getting together. I was the one who made the first move after 3-4 years of being friends. He has said in the past it’s pretty much how he feels validated. I’m a very independent person and rather do things on my own than depend on someone to do them for me. He has expressed he doesn’t really know how to deal with someone who isn’t completely dependent upon him. I don’t know exactly how to get across that even though I might not need him around I want him around. I own a business and haven’t really changed anything from pre pregnancy. He has two other kids both grown that he raised so him being a good parent isn’t a problem. If I should need to raise this one on my own I’m completely fine with that 100%. I don’t need a man to take care of me I’m perfectly capable to take care of myself and a child on my own.

I am currently 26 weeks pregnant and my fiancé still wants to have sex every night. Sometimes I just don’t feel like it and he thinks I should “do what other women do” and at least give him a blow job or hand job. I guess I missed the memo that this is something other women do all the time. I don’t know how to get across intimacy is more than sex. He only is affectionate with me when we’re having sex if we don’t for a night then he will hardly sleep in the same bed. When we are having sex he is really loving.